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Adding sex toys to your intimate routine can be an exciting way to explore new sensations, deepen connection, and make pleasure a shared adventure. Whether you’re curious beginners or long-time partners looking to spice things up, introducing toys doesn’t have to feel awkward or intimidating. Here’s your step-by-step guide to bringing toys into the bedroom — together.
Communication is the foundation of good sex, and that includes talking about toys. Choose a relaxed, private moment — not right before or during sex — to bring it up.
You can say something like:
“I read something about how couples are using toys together to make things more fun. What do you think about trying that?”
Keep it light and non-judgmental. The goal isn’t to “fix” your sex life — it’s to explore new ways to connect. Be open to each other’s comfort levels and preferences.
Start small with toys designed specifically for partners. These are great for easing into play without feeling overwhelmed.
Here are a few beginner-friendly options:
Rings and Sleeves: Perfect for mutual pleasure and added stimulation.
Clitoral stimulators: Small, discreet, and easy to use during foreplay or penetration.
Couples Vibrators: Fun for building anticipation and experimenting with power dynamics.
Explore our Couples’ Sex Toys Collection to discover a range of beginner and advanced options made for two.
When trying something new, setting boundaries helps both partners feel safe and respected. Discuss what feels good, what doesn’t, and what you’d like to try next time.
A few simple tips:
Use safe words or signals if you ever feel uncomfortable.
Take turns being in control — try letting one partner lead the toy play.
Focus on mutual pleasure, not just performance.
Remember: this is about connection, not perfection.
Toys feel best when things are smooth and comfortable. Using the right lubricant can make every touch feel more pleasurable and safe for your body.
Water-based lubes work with all toy materials and are easy to clean.
Silicone-based lubes last longer and are ideal for couples play (just avoid using them with silicone toys).
Check out our Lubes & Sexual Wellness Collection for body-safe, toy-friendly options that keep the mood flowing naturally.
Introducing toys doesn’t have to be a one-time experiment. You can make it part of your routine — a way to reconnect, laugh, and explore together.
Try taking turns picking toys or setting up “play nights.” Over time, you’ll find what works best for both of you and build confidence in your shared pleasure.
Bringing toys into your relationship is about curiosity, communication, and connection. Start slow, talk openly, and choose toys that excite both of you.
When approached with care and playfulness, toys can enhance not only your pleasure — but also your intimacy, trust, and love for each other.
Ready to explore together? Shop our Couples’ Collection and find the perfect toys for shared pleasure and connection.
