Come As You Are

Come As You Are: Revised and Updated by Emily Nagoski is a transformative guide to understanding and enhancing your sexual wellbeing. This 400-page paperback draws on groundbreaking science to reveal that confidence and joy in your sex life stem not from physical specifics, but from how you feel about yourself. Nagoski demystifies women's sexuality—a topic long understudied—showing that stress, mood, trust, and body image are central to sexual health, not side notes. This revised edition includes new research on mindfulness, desire, and pleasure, offering fresh insights to help you create a more fulfilling intimate life. Perfect as a thoughtful gift or a personal resource, this New York Times bestseller empowers readers to embrace their authentic selves and discover that they are already sexually whole. Whether you're exploring solo or with a partner, this inclusive, body-positive read is an essential addition to any sexual-wellness journey.

Body-safe, medical-grade silicone. Rinse with warm water and a toy-safe cleaner before and after use. Store separately in the pouch provided.

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